Not all relationships are guaranteed to last...even
if you think they are
perfect. All you can do is keep an eye on your behaviors as well as
his to
recognize-and fix-problem areas as soon as you see them. The longer
you wait to
address them, the more difficult they will be to repair.
Research shows that the majority (96 percent) of breakups are
initiated by women.
Although this statistic may seem comforting, for the women who have
been dumped,
it is anything but.
In retrospect, most people realize that the signs were there all
along, but chose
to ignore them. The most significant sign was a 'gut' feeling that
something was
wrong. A person's gut is never wrong, its purpose is for protection.
So, whatever
you feel it telling you, you
need to listen, even if your partner denies it.
Other common signs include the following:
* Visiting dating Web sites;
* Not marry you within three years of dating;
* Being secretive;
* Needing more time and space away from you;
* Forgetting important dates;
* Behaviors do not follow words
* Continued friendship with ex partners
* A change in routine;
* Picking fights about insignificant things;
* Spending less time together;
* Going out with friends more;
* Not expressing love as often;
* A sudden burst of devotion of love (this is usually a guilt
response to an
upcoming breakup).
Understanding the unspoken is key to knowing how strong a
relationship is. Learn
crucial ways of knowing if your partner is still attracted to you by
clicking HERE
Nancy Fagan, M.S., author of “The Complete Idiot’s Guide to
Romance” and “Desirable Men: How to Find Them.” To read more,
visit www.ExpertdatingAdvice.com.
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