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Nothing
is more endearing than the first time your partner calls you by a
pet name. One thing is sure—it signifies that your partner is
comfortable with you. When you hear the name, it makes you feel
special because it sets you apart from the others in his or her
life. It’s amazing what a little phrase of fondness can do.
Anyone can call you by your first name, but only a special person
can make up his or her own name for you. Even friends and family can’t
use pet names on you. Sure, they can call you something other than
your name, but it’s not the same as when your partner says it.
What’s in a Name?
Some pet names are easier to use than others. The easiest terms are
the ones that sound more like compliments. The following table has a
few pet name ideas to help you get started:
Categories of Pet Names
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Sweets
Cupcake
Sweet
cakes
Sugar
Honey
Cookie
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Other
Foods
Pumpkin
Sweet pea
Sugar plum
Peach
Hot Tamale
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Pedestal
Princess
Prince
Angel
Knight
Goddess
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Basic
Sweetheart
Handsome
Beautiful
Baby
Darling
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Pet
Names Can Be Awkward
Using pet names is a difficult thing for some people. For some, it
almost feels like they are making a commitment by using anything
other than their partner’s first name. For others, they just feel
too reserved to use an affectionate term. If this describes you, don’t
feel like you are the only one, because others are uncomfortable
with this form of intimacy as well. For some, using a pet name flows
easily, and for others, it takes a little practice.
It’s always easier to practice over the phone if you are the
slightest bit uncomfortable. All you have to do is answer the phone,
and when you hear your partner’s voice, without hesitation, say,
“Hi there, handsome/ beautiful!” Then take a deep breath and
know that the next time will be easier. You can bet your partner, on
the other end, will be smiling from ear to ear. She’ll feel so
special just because you called her something special. It works
every time; test it out for yourself.
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