I've
been musing on a topic of great importance lately, RELATIONSHIPS.
My thoughts have been along these lines: If I'm in the process of
Deliberately Attracting more of what I want, how can I maintain good
relationships with people who may not appreciate or want what I
want?
How
can I have what I want while at the same time allow the other person
to have what they want? Especially if what we each desire something
different?
HARMONY.
One of the primary
intentions of both parties in a GOOD relationship must be HARMONY.
While I'm living alone, I don't have to be too concerned about how
my choices will affect another person, but when I am sharing space
with someone or in a relationship of any kind, then I'm aware that
my decisions may have an affect on the other person.
So,
how can I get what I want while allowing the other person to have
what they want?
Through
CLEAR COMMUNICATION. Most disagreements come about NOT by
deliberately disagreeing, but by being in DEFAULT mode and not
understanding what the other person is wanting.
Here
are 5 steps to CLEAR COMMUNICATION which will maintain the intention
of HARMONY:
1.
Identify your desire: Become crystal clear about what you want and
why you want it.
2.
Effectively communicate your desire and intention to the other
person.
3.
Communicate segment by segment. Take time to be sure you are fully
communicating and fully understood.
4.
Understand your Inner Guidance system and rely upon it to tell you
if you are truly creating in the direction of your intention
resulting in HARMONY or if what you are communicating is causing dis-HARMONY.
5.
Remain in ALLOWING mode after making your desire known. If my
over-riding intention is to have HARMONY between us, then I will
ALLOW the Universe to orchestrate the circumstances so that we can
both receive the desire of our heart and maintain our enjoyment of
one another. Relax. Chill out. Remain joyful!
One
'trap' I've noticed is that I often think I already know how a
person is going to respond to my communication--and according to Law
of Attraction, if I think they are going to react strongly, they
most likely will.
The
trick is to BELIEVE that the Universe wants to give me the desire of
my heart AND maintain HARMONY in my relationships. How? Ah, that's
the fun part. The Universe has an infinite number of ways to achieve
this feat...that's half the fun...wondering and watching how it will
work out.
Do
you have a secret dream, desire or hope? Contact Rebecca to
learn how YOU can live your dream!
About the Author
Rebecca Hanson, Victoria, BC, Canada
rebecca@teleclassinternational.com
http://www.businessofattraction.com
Rebecca Hanson is the owner of two successful business, Aurora
websites (www.aurorawebsites.com) and co-owner of TeleClass
International (www.teleclassinternational.com). She lives, models,
coaches and teaches Deliberate Attraction--a practical application
of the Law of Attraction
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